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Sunday 10 September 2017

Are Feminists and Social Justice Warriors (SJWs) Really Ruining Hollywood?

Oh boy I'm gonna open up a can of worms with this aren't I? Allow me to provide context: lately, Hollywood has been making strides into including women and people of differing races. For example, the Star Wars franchise, which only had one major female character and one black character per trilogy, now has predominantly female protagonists and more diverse casting. This by the way is awesome! There's still a long way to go but I'm glad that Hollywood is making the effort to be more inclusive.

There is however a trend that seems to be creeping in lately that certain people have taken issue with and that is gender swapping. I have mentioned the recent 'controversy' surrounding a female Doctor for Doctor Who but this isn't the only case. The recent Ghostbusters film had an all female cast as opposed to the all male cast of the original, several Marvel Comics characters have either changed genders or ethnicities (such as a black female Iron Man now called Iron Heart, an Asian Hulk, a Muslim Ms Marvel, a black Spider-Man AND a female Spider-Man called Spider-Gwen, a female Thor etc) and it has been announced that there will be an all female Lord of the Flies remake. This does raise an understandable issue as replacing male characters with female characters instead of creating new ones is a touch lazy and it implies that the only way for female characters to gain prominence is to take on male roles but that's not what some people take issue with. They claim that SJWs and 'feminazis' are ruining their favourite characters and franchises by changing the status quo. Heck even original female characters such as Rey from the new Star Wars films are getting criticised for 'intruding' popular previously male driven characters.

This puts me in a bit of a predicament as no matter who I side with, I will annoy certain people. I'm typically on the side of the SJWs because... well they mean well... why wouldn't they? They want justice and equality for all and I find that very admirable even if they get a bit preachy at times. The anti-SJW crowd annoys me more because I feel like they're just throwing the term around without knowing they mean. Now that my opinion's out there (and I'm hoping my followers are civil people) I should probably weigh in on this who increase in diversity.

As far as original characters are concerned, bring it on. We need more diversity in Hollywood and it's nice to see that actors of different genders and ethnicities finally getting work. In fact, we need more of this. Despite the fact that we finally have a good female driven superhero movie from DC, Wonder Woman, I've noticed that Disney and Marvel, despite churning out consistently strong films, has taken 11 years for them to finally give us a female driven superhero movie with Captain Marvel (and that's assuming it comes out in 2019).

Gender swapping is where it gets a bit tricky. The 2016 Ghostbusters film has taken a lot of flak for presenting an all female cast. Of course, it wasn't the only reason for the backlash with many taking issue with the fact that it was a reboot of a classic and the fact that it was poorly marketed didn't help either. I haven't seen this film at the time of writing as I myself thinks that the film doesn't look very good in terms of quality (I may be wrong, I need to see for myself) but the consensus seems to be 'eh' and that people have been worked up about nothing. I am confused as to why it was a reboot as it could've easily have worked as a sequel with the old cast passing the torch to the new cast similar to the new Star Wars movies but at the same time, there's nothing wrong with an all female cast since they are original characters after all with new and different personalities (I think, again I haven't seen the film). What does worry me is how they handle the male characters as I've heard they're all either idiots or evil. Look, I know that in the past, it was the other way around but come on! This isn't any better! Both male and female characters should get equal treatment when it comes to portrayal.

Case in point: Wonder Woman. Despite it being a girl power film with an island of all female Amazons and the main protagonist being tough and inspirational, the male protagonists get equal treatment being genuinely helpful throughout the film. Honestly, more films should do that! Feminism, for me, is the belief in total gender equality. No battle of the genders or 'us and them' mentalities, just equality and harmony. If what I hear about Ghostbusters' treatment of male characters is true, then I feel like it suffers from the same problems as male driven Hollywood movies only reversed.

Then again, female Ghostbusters is not a bad idea since... well... who doesn't want to bust ghosts? (Well me for starters but hey, no-one should be excluded from the issue). In fact gender swapping characters isn't too bad of an idea IF, and this is a very big IF, it doesn't betray what the original characters stand for. Though I'm all for a female Doctor since the character's an alien who's personality changes with each actor who plays him/her, I'm against the idea of a female James Bond. James Bond is the embodiment of masculinity. He drives expensive cars, wears tuxedos, gambles, drinks a lot of alcohol and, most crucially, is a massive womanizer. Making James Bond a woman (Jane Bond?) would take away the masculine fantasy that many men have (i.e. saving the world and sleeping with as many women as they want). I'm all for a strong female spy character that regularly assists James Bond but not Bond himself. A black Bond however, I'm more than okay with (#elbaforbond).

I guess what I'm trying to say here is that gender swapping is fine but Hollywood etc shouldn't go too mad with it. I'd much rather have new well-written female characters that Hollywood risking missing what makes those stories and characters work to begin with. I am worried that the female Lord of the Flies would change too much of the original story since there are inherent differences between males and females for it to be a direct adaptation and even if there wasn't and the story is still the same, why do it? What's the point?

The rise of diversity in film is an wonderful thing and neither feminists or SJWs are ruining Hollywood but Hollywood should be careful about implementing diversity at the expense of either reskinning the problem or even making too many changes to the source material.

And for those commentators from both sides of the arguments who are being nasty to the opposing side... just try to be civil with each other. I know that's apparently a difficult thing to do but just try. I don't care who's right, if you're being nasty then you're wrong in my eyes and you should fix that attitude.


Well I hope that was a fair and constructive argument. I might have to run and hide in case I annoy certain members of my followers but hopefully you lot will be nice to myself and others and I hope you won't send me hurtful or hateful comments at my general direction. I did the best I could with a topic as delicate as this. If you don't want to come after me with a pitchfork and torch then be sure to like my Facebook page 'Joel Mole' and to share this around any possible forms of social media. You can also leave ideas on what topics I should cover next time and until I do this again, fair the well good people of the internet!

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Monday 17 July 2017

The Thirteenth Doctor: A Lesson on Dealing with Change

So on Sunday 16th July 2017, the BBC announced that Jodie Whittaker (Broadchurch, St Trinians, Attack the Block) would take over from Peter Capaldi as the titular role in the popular sci-fi series 'Doctor Who.' Though most of the fanbase (including myself) is okay with this, there is a very vocal minority voicing their displeasure at the notion that a woman is playing the Doctor for the first time (discounting Joanna Lumley from the spoof 'The Curse of Fatal Death'). 

There are many reasons for this, some understandable (the possibility of this turning into a gimmick), some downright horrifying (general sexism) and one that's very confusing. This particular argument states that the role of the Doctor has always been male and that this shouldn't change. Really? I mean I kind of get what they're saying. Each Doctor before her has been played by a white male actor (all of whom are brilliant) so a change in the status quo will be jarring. But here's the thing, this isn't the first time that 'Doctor Who' has changed its established status quo, which is demonstrated by two crucial changes in the show's history. 

A little background: In 1963, Sydney Newman initially pitched the show as an education show for children with the Doctor acting as a guide and the companions acting as audience surrogates. The time travel element was still there but the past and future settings would be used to teach kids about history and science respectively. He was also strongly against the idea of using 'BEMs' (Bug-Eyed Monsters). He also specifically wanted an old man as the Doctor since that would be most suitable for a mentor. The formula changed when Terry Nation wrote a script featuring the Daleks and though Newman hated it, producer Verity Lambert gave it a fair chance and, because there were no other scripts available, Newman reluctantly allowed it. The story, and the Daleks in particular, proved to be so successful that Newman revoked the no BEMs rule and soon, the show dropped the educational aspect to give a larger focus on the battling monsters angle. 

This change was vital to ensuring the show's popularity since the success of the Daleks pushed it to mainstream with other monsters such as the Cybermen and the Weeping Angels becoming just as iconic. 

The other change was the idea of regeneration. Originally, though the Doctor would be an alien, he would not change his face and William Hartnell would remain in the role. That changed when Hartnell got too ill to play the role. However, instead of outright cancelling the show for losing its main lead, Newman decided to introduced the idea of 'renewal' (later called regeneration) to ensure that the Doctor can be replaced should the actor choose to leave. As well as this, Hartnell's replacement, Patrick Troughton, decided to play the role differently, opting to play him as an eccentric uncle rather than Hartnell's grumpy grandfather. This ensured the show's longevity since the writers were allowed to explore the character in new and interesting ways so that when the show was at risk of going stale, they could always change the character.

The key word here is change. The show is very different to how it was originally with a new format, cast and crew but still retaining what made the original show so special. The Doctor is no different. The character has evolved from a patriarchal mentor with questionable morals to a hero who believes in gender neutral ideas such as equality, respect for others, kindness, resilience and doing the right thing no matter how hopeless the situation is. Even if the Doctor makes the wrong decisions, he is still justified in his actions..  A woman could embody these ideals just as easily as a man and if upcoming showrunner Chris Chibnall remembers to stay true to the Doctor's character, Jodie Whittaker could be a great Doctor.  On top of this, it has recently been established that the Doctor's people, the Time Lords, are gender fluid with characters such as the Master making the change from male to female and even back in the 80s, Sydney Newman was strongly considering replacing Colin Baker with a woman (though that request was declined leading to the casting of Sylvester McCoy)

Now, despite change being vital to the show's survival, I can understand those who are uncomfortable with Peter Capaldi leaving and being replaced with someone who appears to be completely different so let me recall the first time I experienced regeneration. 

The year was 2005 and I was watching Christopher Eccleston's final episode as the Doctor: 'The Parting of the Ways.' Though I was somewhat aware of other Doctors, I had no idea that Eccleston was leaving nor did I have a clue about the concept of regeneration so it came as a genuine shock to me when Eccleston suddenly changed into David Tennant. I was scared and confused. After all, I have been so used to the idea of one man playing the Doctor that the idea of the role being handed to a complete stranger was very jarring. As someone with autism, change is difficult to go through especially if I didn't know about it beforehand. Nevertheless, I really liked the show so I gave Tennant a chance and sure enough, he won me over and I even liked him more than Eccleston. Tennant's Doctor became my childhood hero and Doctor Who, as I've already mentioned, has changed my life and since then I was more familiar with the concept of regeneration. 

When Tennant announced that he was leaving though, I was even more skeptical that I was with Eccleston. After all, Tennant was a terrific Doctor and I had doubts about his replacement, Matt Smith's ability to fill his shoes. I wasn't the only one as many felt he was too young to take the role. But again, since I loved the show and Smith's debut series looked awesome, I checked him out anyway and though it took me longer to get used to Matt Smith, I thought he was a worthy successor to Tennant. Nowadays, it saddens me when I meet someone who never watched 'Doctor Who' past David Tennant as Matt Smith was great in his own right. It was at this point where regeneration became less scary and more exciting as it allowed me the opportunity to speculate as to who would take on the role and, as I got more familiar with the other Doctors, I was confident that whoever the BBC would be excellent. 

When Matt Smith announced that he was leaving, I was sad but also excited as to who could replace him and sure enough, when Peter Capaldi was announced as the 12th Doctor, I was pleased though others were skeptical because they felt he was too old (ironic since William Hartnell was the same age as Capaldi when he first started). It was around this time where a female Doctor became a possibility and to be honest, I didn't want that to happen. The concept of gender-fluid regeneration wasn't firmly established at the time so I was convinced that this wasn't a good idea. However, when Missy was introduced and revealed to be the Master (a typically male character), I warmed up the idea of a female Doctor to the point where my current top choice, Hayley Atwell, is female. So when Jodie Whittaker was announced as the 13th Doctor, I was happy despite the fact that I have only heard of her this weekend. And now? I'm waiting to see what Whittaker and Chris Chibnall has to offer and Broadchurch is now a must buy. 

The point of this anecdote is that no matter who they cast and no matter how different the Doctor appears to be, the Doctor is still the Doctor and I can guarantee you that you would be upset when she leaves. 

So yes, a female Doctor is unheard of but it's not out of place with the show's ideology. Change is important as it potentially allows for better things to happen. We would still be in the stone age if not for change. 'Doctor Who' and its 12 actors are a shining example of how good change can be since it demonstrates that change can make a struggling TV show into a worldwide phenomenon. So long as you understand the importance of change, then the idea of a female Doctor won't seem so scary. 

Good luck Jodie Whittaker and Chris Chibnall. Here's hoping that you two will pull it off spectacularly. 


That concludes this thought from an autistic mind. What do you think of this new development in Doctor Who? Do you agree with my statements about change? Do you think Jodie Whittaker is a good choice? Why/Why not? Leave your thoughts in the comments below (And please be civil! I can't abide sexism and the social media side of 'Doctor Who' is already depressing me). Please give this post a share, like my Facebook page 'Joel Mole' and leave any suggestions on what topics you want me to cover next. Until then, fare thee well good people of the internet!


Sunday 14 May 2017

Defining My Weirdness: How I Fit Into the Characteristics of Autism (Autism Awareness Special)

Sooooo this is a bit late. I had intended to do 2017's Autism Awareness Special with a case study on Sheldon Cooper from 'The Big Bang Theory' but there's hundreds of episodes worth of examples and I honestly can't sift through them all to find them so that's on permanent hiatus until further notice. Instead, I thought I'd try out something different for my belated Autism Awareness Special.

I thought I'd try listing all known characteristics of autism and I'll see if I fit into them. The point of this is three-fold:

1) This will hopefully explain my somewhat unusual quirks to those of you readers that have had the pleasure of knowing me personally

2) It'll hopefully teach you on well-known characteristics of autism

3) If I don't fit with all of these, it'll be proof that no two autistic people are the same and some characteristics will be more prominent in some people than others

I've decided to take the list from the Rocky Point Academy website (Link below the article) as it is the longest one, thus creating a stronger list. If any of these are inaccurate, sound off in the comments below.

Without further ado, here we go!


  1. Very little or no eye contact - If there's one thing I don't know about most of my friends is their eye colour. Try as I might, I seem unable to look into people's eyes for more than a second. Sometimes this gets to the point where I don't remember their faces after a first encounter.
  2. Resistance to being held or touched - At first but I'm more open to it lately. Initiating physical contact is another thing entirely since I feel I have to get others' permission first.
  3. Tends to get too close when speaking to someone (lack of personal space) - I have a huge sense of personal space and I don't like people getting too close (whether or not this applies to relationships remains to be seen)
  4. Responds to social interactions but does not initiate them - Very mixed actually.  On the whole, I'm bad at both initiating conversations and responding to them. However, if it's a topic I'm actively interested in, I will respond and initiate.
  5. Does not share observations or experiences with others - I honestly can't think of an example that either confirms or denies this. Those of you who know me well will hopefully do this for me.
  6. Difficulty in understanding jokes, figure of speech or sarcasm - I have managed to understand all three in some capacity though idioms have been a problem in the past. Banter is the one thing I have yet to understand.
  7. Difficulty in understand body language and facial expressions - Problem in the past but I understand the basic emotions. More complex emotions are tricky (I am yet to understand, for example, if someone is interested in me romantically though I have a feeling that's a problem with most men)
  8. Difficulty in understand the rules of conversation - Definitely! Small talk in particular is a hard one to do. I've only mastered conversations in geeky stuff or stuff I have vast knowledge in but gossip and other conversation conventions are tricky to me.
  9. Difficulty understanding group interactions - Unsure. I love group interactions but I often feel left out of them through my lack of social interaction and large amounts of daydreaming. To be honest, I don't understand what they mean here.
  10. Aversion to answering question about themselves - Only if I have no idea how to answer it. Ironically, it's questions about my autism I have the most difficulty answering.
  11. Gives spontaneous comments which seem to have no connection to the current conversation - This has lead to some amusingly awkward moments between myself and my peers. This is what happens when one is unable to track conversations properly.
  12. Makes honest but inappropriate observations - Yes and I often dig myself a whole trying to rectify this. 
  13. Seems unable to understand another's feelings - I find this more common with women but again, it seems that most men are naive about that. They even did a funny Family Guy sketch on it (Men! We don't know what we did!)
  14. Prefers to be alone, aloof or overly friendly - Depends on my mood. Sometimes I want to be alone and sometimes I crave a social situation. It's a funny old brain this.
  15. Difficulty maintaining friendships - Making friends is very difficult and maintaining them can be difficult as I tend to lose touch with them out of anxiety.
  16. Finds it easier to socialize with older and younger people rather than peers my own age - Actually yes. I do prefer interacting with adults than teenagers though children stress me out after a while.
  17. Unaware of/disinterested in everything around me - The first one applies more as I tend to daydream (a lot!)
  18. Talks excessively about one or two topics - Dunununun dunununun dunununun, OOOOOWEEEEEOOOOOOO! (That was the Doctor Who theme for those who thought I have temporarily gone insane)
  19. Overly trusting or unable to read behind the people's motives on actions - Depends on how well I know them. If I know them well, it's the former. If I barely know them or not at all, it's the latter.
  20. Minimal acknowledgement of others - I feel like I'm repeating myself here but yes that does often happen. 
  21. Abnormal use of pitch, intonation, rhythm or stress whilst speaking - Unsure. I might need to check with others for that. It sometimes feels weird with the pitch and tone but other than that, haven't the foggiest.
  22. Speech is abnormally loud or quiet - I have been told I should become a thespian actor because of my naturally loud voice
  23. Difficulty whispering - Actually yes. My whispering is often as loud as my voice
  24. Repeats last words or phrases several times. Makes verbal sounds whilst listening (echolalia) - Sounds right to me. I can't help it, it just happens.
  25. Often uses short incomplete sentences - I think you can tell by some of the short sentences in this article. I do tend to waffle at times but I like using short incomplete sentences. It makes it snappy, you know.
  26. Pronouns are inappropriately used - I do use 'one' as a pronoun even though it's rarely used anymore. Does that count?
  27. May have a high vocabulary - I highly approve of this particular symptom. It demonstrates how one can be sufficiently articulated in their speech patterns and writing styles. (Yes I have a reasonably high vocabulary)
  28. Uses a person's name excessively when speaking to them - At times. I also say please twice in one sentence (Can I please have this please?)
  29. Speech started very early then stopped for a period of time - Nope! I was a late bloomer. I couldn't speak until I was around 3 (though I'm given to understand that it's a common symptom. It might pop up later).
  30. Difficulty understanding directional terms - I know my lefts and rights thank you very much.
  31. Obsession with objects, ideas and desires - Again, Doctor Who. But I'm also obsessed Star Wars, music and romance (the latter files under desires I believe). 
  32. Fascination with rotation - Part of my fiddling habits (stimming). I do like rotating things a lot.
  33. Play is often repetitive - I'm an adult so play is now minimal but as a child, I often played out my own Doctor Who ideas with figures repeatedly (some of which I have since developed into actual story ideas).
  34. Many and varied collections - When one is a geek, one tends to collect things. 
  35. Unusual attachments to objects - If there's one thing I will never get rid of is my star teddy. 
  36. Quotes movies or video games - Again, Doctor Who and Star Wars. I quote them when the situation almost demands it.
  37. Difficulty transferring skills from one area to another - The only time where I know this applies is memory. I have a very selective memory since I remember some things really well and forget things in other subjects or in general.
  38. Perfectionism in some areas - Holy TARDIS of Gallifrey are some of these worded poorly?! I think it means a strict adherance to routine. If my routine or plan is disrupted, I will get distressed. I think this also applies to my habit of making lists but that feels irrelevant 
  39. Frustration expressed in unusual ways - I tend to scream in anger if that answers that question
  40. Feels the need to fix or rearrange things - One particular area where this annoys me is book and DVD order. I have to put them in chronological order or else they will make no sense.
  41. Transitioning from one activity to another is difficult - Not sure. The only time this question makes sense is that I'm great in some subjects but terrible in others.
  42. Difficulty attending to some tasks - I find this applies to practical tasks since the amount of instructions overwhelm me. This includes cooking and science experiments.
  43. Gross motor skills are developmentally behind peers - I can't drive/ride anything with wheels and I completely such at sports. The only one I am good at is walking. I'm a fast walker.
  44. Fine motor skills are developmentally behind peers - I thought that was to do with hypotonia (weak muscle tone which I have also been diagnosed with). Regardless, I can't tie shoelaces (no matter how many times I try), I can't cut straight with scissors, my wrapping skills are appalling and even I can't read my handwriting.
  45. Inability to perceive dangerous situations - Depends on how alert I am. If I'm in my own little world then no. If I'm panicking then yes, too much.
  46. Extreme phobia/fears for no apparent reason - Loud noises and dolls of any kind spring to mind.
  47. Verbal outbursts - I think so? I'm not sure.
  48. Unexpected movements - I do randomly do things when I feel like it but I also stick to a routine so I can be fairly predictable, 
  49. Difficulty sensing time - I'm awful without a nearby clock/watch. I have no idea how fast or slow something is
  50. Difficulty waiting their turn (such as in line) - I am rather impatient, especially when I'm time constrained.
  51. Causes injury to self - Don't worry, I'm too scared of pain for that. The only exception is smacking my head or lightly banging my head against the wall whenever myself or someone else says or does something stupid. I can't abide stupidity.
  52. Walks on toes - Only to reach something though I might do it subconsciously
  53. Unusual gait - Fun fact: I had to look up what that means! Apparently it means funny walks. Yes I do walk in unusual ways including C-3PO when trying to get through crowds. 
  54. Difficulty changing from one floor surface to another (carpet to wood, pavement to grass) - Not anymore. Apparently that used to be a problem with grass but nowadays, I love being barefoot on grass. 
  55. Odd or unnatural posture - I think I'm somewhat hunched but honestly, I don't know because I haven't bothered to compare myself with someone with natural posture
  56. Difficulty moving through space (bumps into objects and people) - Not a major problem but I have bumped into people in the past. Especially the tighter the space.
  57. Walks without swinging arms freely - I'm the opposite. I'm a swinger (wait...)
  58. Incontinence of bowels or bladder - My bowels are very much in control thank you very much
  59. Constipation - Oh boy... only happens due to lack of fibre
  60. Frequent gas - I'm flatulent yest but not Thunderpants levels. I'm getting uncomfortable with bowel questions, can we move on?
  61. Appearance of hearing problems, but hearing has been checked and is now fine - Yes. I am unable to hear people at times with multiple incidents of me saying 'pardon?'
  62. Seizure activity - None that I know of. The closest I fit to that is twitching 
  63. Irregular sleeping patterns - Sometimes I sleep like a log. Others I can't sleep at all. You can tell I prefer the former.
  64. Apparent lack of concern for personal hygiene - Less concern than others but I do have a concern for my hygiene! I'm not a neanderthal.

Aaaaaand that's it. Boy was that a long list. I do hope this isn't overwhelming for you guys but I hope this gives you a better insight towards my behaviour and the behaviour of people on the spectrum. If there are any that I've missed, sound off below and I will tell you if I adhere to them or not. 

Also, due to the fact that I don't follow all of these, this will hopefully demonstrate that not everyone on the spectrum follows all of these. There will be some things that I follow and other people on the spectrum don't and vice versa. I'm not the definitive article of autism!




Anywho, that concludes this Thought from an Autistic Mind. What did you think of this list? Is it accurate? Are there any that I've missed? What characteristics do you or people on the spectrum follow on this list? Sound off in the comments below and be sure to like my Facebook page 'Joel Mole.' Stay tuned for more posts in the future but until then, fair thee well good people of the internet!


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Others that I've missed: I do laugh nervously, I am sensitive to pain, I do have difficulty in asking for help or needs, I am very sensitive to sound and I want things to stay the same dagnabbit!


Sunday 7 May 2017

The Dark and Dangerous Side of Fandom!

Introduction (Yes I'm splitting this into sections. I have that much to say about this)

Let's get real here. We currently live in a time of fandom. Because geek culture has pretty become mainstream with superhero movies topping box office numbers and genre television being regarded as some of the best around. As a result, fanboys and fangirls themselves have become more prominent. Most of the time, fans are generally nice people and fandoms themselves can be a good thing because it brings people together and helps form friendships and even romances. But, like Star Wars, for every light side, there is a dark side as there is an increasingly vocal minority on the internet that displays rather unpleasant behaviours. I will list the different types of negative fandom and explain the reason why using examples of different fandoms that exhibit these behaviours.

Before I do that though I would like to say that I myself am a fanboy. I am currently part of the Doctor Who, Star Wars, Harry Potter and Marvel fandoms amongst others so I feel like I'm a decent position to talk about its current state. I would also like to put out a disclaimer that these people are in the minority and the vast majority of fandoms are actually lovely people. With that out of the way, here are several dark aspects of fandom and why they concern me.

Fan Fictions and Fan Art

I have mentioned that there is a light side to fandom as well as a dark side and this is no exception. There are some truly great works of art worthy of being in a canvas as well as some legitimately talented writers in the fan fiction department (and I'm not talking about myself). They can be beneficial too as it helps budding artists and writers get noticed and refine their skills. I myself am happy that the BBC are running a fan fiction site that allows people like myself to write their own Doctor Who stories and it gives me greater hope that I'll get noticed and hopefully achieve my dream job of writing for Doctor Who. 

But sadly, they both get a bad name because there are those who use this medium to live out their somewhat disturbing fetishes. These include, but are not limited to: self-insert fan fiction where they do giggity things with fictional characters (human or otherwise), slash-fiction where fictional characters do giggity things with each other and, with fan art in particular. sexualisation of non-human characters, pregnancies and births. It doesn't help that these are often badly written or badly drawn, adding poor quality to the list of their 'crimes'.

Full disclosure, I haven't actually read/seen a lot of these because I've heard enough ghost stories about them to stay as far away from them as possible but the little I have seen is enough to scar me and even put me off certain media products because of the somewhat creepy nature of their fans. It also lessens the impact of certain media products like Five Nights of Freddy's because it makes something that was legitimately creepy and makes them, for lack of a better word, lame due to their infinitely less scary fan art. 

Fandoms that exhibit this behaviour include (but again are not limited to): Sonic the Hedgehog, My Little Pony, Five Nights at Freddy's, anime and Undertale. It's also no coincidence that they are also considered some of the worst fandoms due to their disturbing and unhealthy mindset and I personally believe that these people need to get some help. Though they are more weird than despicable and technically a more harmless side of fandom than others (more on that later) they are certainly the most unnerving and the type of fandom I would least like to interact with.    

I will say that they are mostly harmless in the grand scheme of things. They don't hurt anyone, at least to my knowledge, and one can easily avoid these. These kinds of fans also keep themselves to themselves unlike other types of fans that I will later mention. One notable exception is Fifty Shades of Grey, a Twilight fan fiction, where its grossly inaccurate portrayal of BDSM and romatacisation of domestic abuse could lead to people exhibiting similar behaviours. I will share a brilliant video from a YouTuber called The Dom (no he did not mean for it to be interpreted this way) explaining why on my Facebook page Joel Mole.

Side note: stay FAAAAAAR away from DeviantArt. You do not need the nightmares.

Fan Entitlement and Purism

Admittedly this isn't as bad as the previous sections but this is still rather saddening nonetheless. Believe it or not, this is the reason I made this post as recently, I have seen a noticable change in the Star Wars community. Now I'm not saying the Star Wars community is bad, they were so positive towards Hayden Christensen in the most recent Star Wars Celebration despite his character being ridiculed and the movies themselves have inspired some truly inspired fan films. However, when one looks in the YouTube comment section of Star Wars related videos, there is nothing but comments bashing the most recent films and TV shows (particularly The Force Awakens and Star Wars Rebels) focussing entirely on the negatives and blowing them out of proportion and ignoring the positives. Now people are entitled to their own opinions but when reading these comments, I doubt they have given them a fair chance. 

The reason for this, I think, is of two reasons rolled into one: the overwhelming love for the original trilogy and the distrust arising from the prequels culminating into purism. Because they love the original trilogy so much, they seem unable to enjoy anything that comes out since then as anything that isn't remotely perfect is automatically rubbish in their eyes. That's a somewhat unhealthy outlook on these products and honestly, it's better to watch it as its own product, which can allow a better sense of enjoyment. It also doesn't help that they denounce people who do like these products simply because it isn't their own opinions. This is the same with comic book adaptations. If something doesn't pander to their love for the comic books, they will not love it regardless of its quality and will not listen to any other opinions because of it.

I must confess that though I'd defend the latest Star Wars products to my grave, I have been a victim to purism. I cannot enjoy the Harry Potter films as much as I used to because of my die hard love for the books because of how many important plot details they have left out (though I do like the Chamber of Secrets, the Deathly Hallows and Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them) and I can't enjoy Disney's live action Beauty and the Beast film because it pales in comparison to the original despite it being very similar and harmless overall (though Emma Watson's distractedly bad singing may have something to do with it). This is what saddens me really because no-one is immune to this. At least with disturbing fan fictions, people can have sense not to write them but here, there is a danger of loving something too much that you fail to enjoy anything else.

Hostility and Trolling

Sadly the most extreme form of fan entitlement comes in the form of wrath. Like I said before, if entitled fans have opinions, they will stick to it and it is often the case where they disagree with someone's opinion so much, they will be angry to the point of personal attacks and death threats.

I find that this appears most often in video game communities. During multiplayer, when someone plays in a way that doesn't please them, they will scream insults at them complete with sweary swearatons and claims to have coitus with other people's mothers. It's honestly kind of toxic behaviour really and what's even more disturbing is that most of these people are children, typically 12 year old boys. 

I'm disgusted that people, especially children, feel like they are entitled to say horrible things to each other because of their anonymity and it's not just in video game communities. YouTube comments are filled with flame wars of differing opinions and horrible insults. Apparently Steven Universe and Sonic fans are especially guilty of this as anyone who dislikes the product gets death threats. 

It's rather depressing as one can't even express their opinions on the internet anymore because someone will turn up and harshly disagree. Aside from gaming communities, politics is a big cause of this attitude as it can get to the point of friends turning against friends (though that is something I will expand upon in a later post).

Unfortunately, it doesn't stop there as sometimes, there isn't a reason for someone to be nasty to others on the internet but that is how people behave and it can drive people to depression and even suicide. This is why I consider this to be the darkest part of fandom because it actually causes harm to people and seemingly allows people to exhibit disgusting behaviour online with seemingly little consequences.

Stalking and Celebrity Harassment

Unfortunately, this isn't the only toxic behaviour displayed by fandoms and honestly, it's the most worrying. There is an almost unhealthy obsession with celebrity culture to the point where there is stalking, sexual comments, harassment and paparazzi.

The latter is especially infuriating because it's like these people have no sense of privacy. What is so fascinating about these people that they have to report on every single aspect on their lives? They're people for crying out loud! Why can't you leave them alone! I'd imagine this causes some lasting psychological damage on them due to the amount of pressure placed on them! I'm looking at you TMZ! I'm looking at you OK magazine! Leave these people alone and find something better to do you cancerous harpies!!!

Ahem... sorry, at this point I've built up such a rage I might just hit something (though as a pacifist I'll refrain). Anyway, you see where I'm coming from? Fandom has got to such an extreme point that people are starting to exhibit dangerous behaviours that could negatively affect others.

The Light Side of Fandom

Right, before I break my oath of pacifism, I will mention that these people are thankfully in the minority. The majority of fans are generally pleasant people who have insightful views on movies and TV shows, are respectful to the cast and crew behind them and I myself have made most of my friends through these fandoms. There are also fandoms that are very harmless and very nice overall. I will now list some of the best fandoms and why I like them so much.

- Harry Potter: I have never seen a fandom so in love with their product yet so respectful of other opinions. The closest thing I have seen to hostility is the friendly teases against Hufflepuffs (I am a proud Hufflepuff by the way). Some cases of creepy fan fiction but they're not that prominent.

- Star Wars: Despite being the best example of purism gone wrong, this fandom is perhaps the most respectful to the cast and crew of the films (including George Lucas and Hayden Christensen) and like I said, this is a good example of fan fiction and fan art done right as some of the fan films and art are just beautiful and well made. 

- Doctor Who: Yes I know I am kind of biased but this is a great example of agreeing to disagree. We accept others' opinions despite not necessarily liking them and we all agree that the show is going downhill. Even the romantacisation of the show by Tumblr fans kind of makes sense since the show is rather poetic by nature. Honestly, the only major problem I have with the fandom is that we're dwindling in numbers.

- Star Trek: One of the original fandoms, the Star Trek fandom is probably the most agreeable of all the fandoms. They agree what films and TV shows they like and what  they don't like and happy with the new products despite it being different to what came before.

- Lord of the Rings: Besides Harry Potter, I have never seen a fandom so engrossed in the product but honestly, it's allowed because of how richly detailed Middle Earth is. They may be pedantic but they are also very harmless and lovely people.

Fandoms like these ensure that fandom itself doesn't fall into the pit of Taturus and I am proud to either know or to be a part of these fandoms.

Conclusion

I think the fundamental problem with fandom is that they take their respective products so seriously. It's okay to be passionate about them. It's a natural form of enjoyment after all. But when one takes it too far, it can lead to downright cancerous behaviour. My final message is this: it's okay to be a fan of something, it can change your life for the better like fandoms such as Doctor Who did for me; but just remember, it's not real, you don't need to use it as an excuse for being nasty.



That concludes this Thought from an Autistic Mind. I hope because of this article you will be respectful in the comments section and you're not horrible to each other. With that said, what did you think of it? Do you agree? Disagree? I hope I haven't offended anyone in this blog and I must stress, I love fandom, being a fanboy myself, I'm just disturbed about certain behaviours. If you do like this blog be sure to share this around and like my Facebook page 'Joel Mole.' Until the next time, fare thee well good people of the internet!

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I think this guy just sums up everything I just said

Saturday 1 April 2017

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Oh and Happy April Fools Day

Saturday 18 February 2017

How to survive the chaos that is the Nightclub



In my time at university, my most interesting experience is probably clubbing. Why? Because its so bizarrely hit and miss. You see, half the time I have a good night out and the other half, I absolutely hate it. It's very weird to say the least! I did make a couple of key observations onto the parts of the night out that factored into this opinion and hopefully I would offer advice to anyone, especially those with autism, on how to cope with a night out clubbing.

Since I don't drink, for reasons I have made very clear in the past, it perplexes me that the vast majority of people there get tipsy at the very least. At first I assumed that these people didn't know how to have fun but soon I discovered that they do it for a good reason: clubs are boring. It's basically about 3 hours of dancing. That's it. Eventually you'll run out of stamina and, since it's so loud (I'll get to that later) you can't strike up a conversation with someone. It gets so bad that most people have pre-drinks so that they'll already be drunk by the time they get there. Being drunk means you're unaware of the boredom that is clubbing and so you can have more fun. In that sense, clubbing is fundamentally flawed.

However, linking back to that earlier post I subtly embedded into this post, there is away around this. Very recently, I found that if you drink lemonade half-way through your clubbing experience, you'll get psyched and the stamina returns. Not to mention, lemonade is only £1 if you get it the right size. Good music helps as well and perhaps this is the biggest factor of the hit and miss nature of clubs. When the music is good, it's enjoyable. If not, prepare for boredom unless you're drunk.

Another thing to note, which has been the bane of my clubbing experience, is finding companions to go home with. If you want to go home early, be sure to go with people who are willing to do the same because otherwise, you may be stranded. You could try going home with people of your own age going to the same destination, but that's unreliable since you don't know them and you have to rely on them being desperate as well. So please make sure you have a reliable companion with you.

Another thing to note is the concept of 'pulling.' What I mean by that is snogging strangers. This may not happen (at the time of writing, it has not happened to me) but if it does, remember two things: 1) They'll be drunk so it might mean nothing, so don't get too attached. 2) If it goes further, use protection! 3) Don't expect it to happen. Most of the time it doesn't happen so if that's the case, don't feel disappointed. 4) If you're initiaiting it, make sure you get consent for reasons that will hopefully be obvious (if not, for the love of Gallifrey, watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8). I know it would be harder when drunk but please keep that in mind. Or better yet, don't get drunk. It looks like a nasty experience and you'll feel like death the next morning.

I did say I would get back to noise so I will. This is especially for those with autism who doesn't like noise. Clubs will be very loud and if that puts you off, that's fine. You don't have to go and nobody has any right to pressure you otherwise. But if you choose to go and you're still concerned about noise, I'd recommend earplugs. If you're worried it'll look weird, don't worry. It's dark and people are too drunk to notice it anyway. If anything, it's better for you since it protects your ears from harm.

Oh and speaking of Autistic people's worst nightmares, it will be crowded! The solution to that problem is simple: Go somewhere where there's space! Not only will you have more room to bust your moves but it's also more comfortable and less people will bump you.

One more thing to note is that go clubbing occasionally, not regularly. Not only would it feel more rewarding and special but your finances will take a lesser hit, especially when you're in Uni. Only go when you're extremely bored of staying in all the time.

Most importantly, just have fun! That's what clubs are for anyway: to have a good time. So long as you're safe, you can have a good time. Or go to the pub... that works too. At least you'll be able to hear people.



And that concludes my Thought from an Autistic Mind. Did you like my advice? Is there anything else you would like to offer to this discussion? Leave a like and comment both on here and Facebook and be sure to like my Facebook page 'Joel Mole.' I might make this a monthly thing from now on so I can have a regular schedule but of course, I will need ideas so if there is any topics you want me to cover, I will discuss it either in a blog post or on my Joel Mole page. See you next month! Until then, fare thee well good people of the internet.